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We see the success of people around us with greedy eyes. Almost all the time we think that we would like to be where they are, to have what they have, to be seen as they are seen. Where is the line between seeing those people’ stories as inspirational and envying those people for what they have?

Inspirational people stories

I often find myself asking myself how some people managed to have a really high function in a company, how they made all the money they have, how they got the fame and power they have. We find some of these people’s stories inspirational and I say to myself that I wish I had the power to get as far as they got. But most of the times, we the other people envy them and their success an accuse them of cheating to get where they are.

Sometimes we, the normal people, envy the others in a good way, because it makes us change for better people.  We envy those with more skills than us, those with more value than ours, those more implicated in their work than us. But in reality they are people who inspire us, who make us want more from us. We would be willing to give up a year of our life only to be able to live a moment like them in their world.

But we, the normal people, envy those who we consider worse than us but who managed to became inspirational stories for people around them. We envy them so strongly that we almost despise them. But how to we envy those who didn’t work hard but got lucky?

In my opinion envy is a form of weakness. When we see that others, who chose the bad ways and didn’t work their way through life got to a point where they are rich and famous we think that maybe we should have done the same. Maybe we should have left the scrupulosity and the hard work and morals behind us and do whatever it takes to become inspirational stories for people around us.

I didn’t have the chance to meet people who envy the other so bad that they wish the worst for them, but I know that they exist. But I don’t want to be one of the people who envy the others for their success. I want them to be people that inspire me. I want to stop caring about those who think that are smarter and managed to get trophies more important than mine. I want to teach people around me to see these people stories as inspirational.

But I had no success. No matter how much I chat with these people trying to convince them of my beliefs I see in their eyes their judgement and envy. I struggle with the pain I feel when people around me feel the disappointment of an unfair world. But I struggle fair and I am convinced that if my fight is going to be fair I will win.

But I sit in my lounge and I ask myself: Can we still talk about a fair fight in this world?

It has been a while now since I started to listen to people, when we chat, and give them signs that I agree with them, while in my mind I had a totally different opinion. It’s like I would say “Yes, I we all know what you mean” without actually believing it. I think it’s a sign that I don’t trust people anymore

Innocent before proven guilty

I believe that in USA, and in all the other civilized countries, considering someone innocent till proven guilty works not only in the low, but also in the relationships between people. I know that it is a big offence to unfairly accuse someone of lying or to be accused of stealing without proof. In all these countries, if you bring such an offence to someone, and he manage to prove his innocence, you, most probably, are going to be sued, and pay for your behavior.

I was passionate about psychology in school, and although I didn’t read more that I needed to, my knowledge regarding people psychology managed to work against me as I got to know people around me. I learned how to know when people are lying to me, or when they are in trouble and this made me suffer because I couldn’t do anything to help them. I became more suspicious, I started to pay more attention and I couldn’t believe that people are innocent before proven guilty anymore. But I can’t read people well enough to find a way to heal them of all the bad things that have happened to them.

I wasn’t always like this. I had to go through some tough love stories, through some big disappointments from my friends. It was enough to see that my boss never keeps his word, but he uses me as much as possible, and to realize that all the employees lie and are ungrateful no matter how many benefits they get; it was enough to live in a country where if you want someone to keep his/hers promises you have to harass them till they do what they said.

I sit in my lounge and I try to lie to myself that I am in recovery, and that if I have the patience to have a healthy life, I will finally heal; that I am going to be the confident and serene person I use to be. I want to believe that maybe if I stop defending myself from people I will stop meeting people who want only to take advantage of me. I want to believe that people are always innocent before proven guilty.

But for now I know that there are only a few people in this world that I trust with my eyes closed. I know that I got used to thinking the worst about people and things and that my fears came true. I know that I am skeptical about anything that anyone says and this proved to be a got thing. And no matter how immoral or illegal it may be, going on a road with thinking that people are guilty till proven innocent saved my life many times.

I have liked to meet rich people who don’t like to display their fortune, rich people who know how to live a life without buying expensive things; rich people who like to give money to charity, rich people who are nice to those around them. But I know that this kind of people is rather rare.

Young Rich People

In our country all the rich people, especially the young ones, want to draw attention upon them no matter what by showing obvious signs. We can see the houses, the cars, the watches, the bags and all the other things that rich people have, and we know that they just want to show that they can afford to buy expensive things. They pay a lot of attention to their fortune: they don’t give away their money easily, thinking that they are entitled to be more careful with their spending than a regular person, especially when it comes to giving away money for charity or to poor people.

There are restaurants for rich people, houses for rich people, cars for rich people and they like to meet and to show off their new acquisitions, looking around to see if anyone has anything more expensive than theirs. If they meet in a restaurant, they like to park their expensive cars right in front of it, to make sure that everyone sees it.

But sometimes their manners belong to uneducated people. Some young rich people like to order an expensive wine and drink it with coke, or they like to chew gum while chatting to other people, who might not be as rich as them. But this is another story.

This weekend I was sitting in my lounge and I read an article about the rich people around the world. It looks like most of these rich people like to drive the same car as their employees.  I also read that those people who became rich by working hard are never ostentatious. Is it really true?

I have met rich people who swore that they have worked hard for their fortune, but who behaved as if he became rich by steeling and cheating. I would like to see that the young rich people who are around us are respectable and delicate with those around them; that we can be proud of them, that they can make a name for themselves only by being fair and hard working. But I know that this is a beautiful dream that might never come true.